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pandagirl
09-14-2006, 09:05 AM
LEESBURG, Fla.
Two weeks after telling police that her son had been snatched from his crib, Melinda Duckett found herself reeling in an interview with TV's famously prosecutorial Nancy Grace. Before it was over, Grace was pounding her desk and loudly demanding to know: "Where were you? Why aren't you telling us where you were that day?"

A day after the taping, Duckett, 21, shot herself to death, deepening the mystery of what happened to the boy.

Police have refused to say whether she left a suicide note, and said nothing they have found so far in their investigation of her death has shed light on the whereabouts of her 2-year-old son, Trenton.

Investigators have stopped short of calling her a suspect but have focused increasing attention on her movements just before the boy vanished and the notes, computer, camera and other items seized from her house.

Duckett's family members disputed any suggestion that she hurt her son. They said that the strain of her son's disappearance pushed her to the brink, and the media sent her over the edge.

"Nancy Grace and the others, they just bashed her to the end," Duckett's grandfather Bill Eubank said Tuesday. "She wasn't one anyone ever would have thought of to do something like this. She and that baby just loved each other, couldn't get away from each other. She wouldn't hurt a bug."

Janine Iamunno, a spokeswoman for Grace, said in an e-mail that Duckett's death was "an extremely sad development," but that the program would continue covering the case.

"We feel a responsibility to bring attention to this case in the hopes of helping find Trenton Duckett, who remains missing," Iamunno said.

Duckett had told police that after she finished watching a movie Aug. 27, she went to check on Trenton in his bedroom, and all she found was an empty crib _ and a 10-inch cut in the window screen above it. At the time she was living her son, wading through a messy divorce with the boy's father and trying to get her life back on track after getting laid off from her job with a lawn care company.

The boy's disappearance in this town of 19,000 people about 45 miles northwest of Orlando stretched the 75-member police force to its limits. Fliers were posted on gas station doors around town, asking for information from anyone who might have seen the boy, a brown- haired youngster wearing denim shorts and a diaper.

Trenton's father, 21-year-old Josh Duckett, was closely questioned after the boy disappeared. Newspapers reported that his wife had taken out a temporary restraining order against him. But Josh Duckett took a polygraph test and has answered all police questions satisfactorily, Capt. Ginny Padgett said.

On Sept. 7, Melinda Duckett gave a telephone interview to CNN Headline News' Grace, a former prosecutor known for practically cross-examining her guests. Duckett stumbled over such questions as whether she had taken a polygraph _ she said she refused on the advice of her divorce lawyer _ and where, exactly, she was shopping with the boy before his disappearance.

Hours before the interview aired, Duckett shot herself Friday with her grandfather's gun at her grandparents' house, up the road from where she was living.

Investigators are still trying to piece together a timeline of where she and Trenton were 24 hours before she reported him missing. On Tuesday, they released the make and model of her car, a 2000 Mitsubishi Eclipse, and asked anyone who might have seen it during that period to call them.

Also on Tuesday, a newspaper reported that she bought a shotgun from a pawn shop two days before Trenton vanished. Padgett said police could not confirm that.

On Monday, agents used dogs and digging equipment to search an outlying area that someone had called about, but found nothing. Investigators continued to field tips.

"We're following up," Padgett said. "Hopefully they'll bring in something to help us firm up the timeline."
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Has anybody been following this case? Wow. I used to be a very big Nancy Grace fan, but I have gotten to the point that I really can't tolerate her HLN show anymore. Nancy has gone too far over the top for me and it seems as if she's more about ratings than justice these days.

I think the final straw was the way she exploited (it seemed to me, anyway) her friendship with Daniel Horowitz by doing an interview with him just days after his wife's death. He didn't know what the heck he was doing and was still in the stages of raw grief and I think Nancy took advantage of that.

This is pretty shocking and I have no doub that Nancy was w-a-a-y over the top, but "blaming" her for the suicide seems ridiculous.

hoosiergirl
09-14-2006, 09:15 AM
I saw the interview this morning on GMA. I don't care for Nancy. She seems more concerned about ratings than rights. (She was pretty much the same way during the recent JonBenet Ramsey thing.) Too bad the mother just didn't hang up on her. People should understand that just because someone throws questions at you does not mean you have to answer them.

MustWatchShopping
09-14-2006, 09:15 AM
This whole thing is bizarre. How mysterious. Obviously, if the mother was willing to kill herself whether premeditated or not, she has a screw loose and that is a big sign to me! I have known others who have lost children and didn't go to such lengths. Although she was badgered, that is not a choice a sound individual would make. KWIM?

I like Nancy, haven't watched her lately though, not for any particular reason. I do think she makes an interesting show.

gojo
09-14-2006, 09:27 AM
I saw the show - Nancy just wanted an answer as to whether she took a polygraph - she wouldn't answer her. She also wanted to know where she was the day before he disappeared. Yesterday they showed an add in the local paper where she was selling the boy's carseat - it ran for 10 days starting about 2 weeks before he disappeared. She also did alot of blogging -which some of the experts say in her writings showed mental illness - a 21 year old talking about funerals and death. I know if my baby disappeared I'd be willing to tell them every step I took the day before if it would help in finding him.

Abbey Road
09-14-2006, 10:11 AM
I don't watch her show, but blaming the motherin the questioning, before the facts are in, is crazy & her show should be cancelled because of it.

QVCQ
09-14-2006, 10:41 AM
I didn't see the show but, I've heard a few things about Nancy Grace's background. Her fiance was murdered years ago, which led to her becoming a prosecutor, which led to her current job on TV. I think her wedding was a few days or weeks away. She's totally locked in to victims' rights and it's very hard for her to see things from any other angle.

Linda Lou
09-14-2006, 11:38 AM
Hmm, how strange. I think most of us can try put ourselves into such a situation when it occurs, and try to think how we'd react. I'm very strong willed, and I can say that no amount of badgering from Nancy Grace would make me off myself if I knew I was totally innocent.

This woman could've had severe emotional problems prior to the child's disappearance, and this just drove her over the edge.

pandagirl
09-14-2006, 12:12 PM
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QVCQ:
I didn't see the show but, I've heard a few things about Nancy Grace's background. Her fiance was murdered years ago, which led to her becoming a prosecutor, which led to her current job on TV. I think her wedding was a few days or weeks away. She's totally locked in to victims' rights and it's very hard for her to see things from any other angle.
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Yes, the story about her past is true. I've heard her tell it MANY times.

I've watched her for years on Court TV and, as I said, I used to really like her. But as she's gotten a bigger audience, she's gotten more and more out of hand. Right now I think she cares about ratings almost as much as she cares about justice.

teena
09-14-2006, 05:51 PM
Nancy can be very arrogant to the point of abrasive but to blame Nancy for that woman's suicide is unfair and ridiculous. Why didn't the woman cooperate with police? Why didn't she agree to a polygraph test? Why did she sell her baby's carseat? Apparently her various blogs and posts on myspace and other internet sites indicated that she wanted to be rid of the child.

Linda Lou
09-14-2006, 05:53 PM
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teena:
Nancy can be very arrogant to the point of abrasive but to blame Nancy for that woman's suicide is unfair and ridiculous. Why didn't the woman cooperate with police? Why didn't she agree to a polygraph test? Why did she sell her baby's carseat?
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Exactly. Also, Nancy CAN be abrasive, but I still find her very interesting to watch.

teena
09-14-2006, 05:57 PM
My bet would be that she knew her whole plan had fallen apart and she was about to be found out. I just hope the baby was "sold" or given to someone and no harm has come to the poor little thing. I saw a crawl at the bottom of Nancy's show tonight - something about the police finding a stuffed animal - but no other info was given.

Nancy can't stand criminals - especially anyone who would hurt a child - and she makes no bones about it. And she's usually right. As a prosecutor she never lost a case. And I don't think she took advantage of Horowitz. He was grieving certainly but he wasn't out of his mind - he knew what he was doing when he was on her show. I think Nancy would be the last person to take advantage of a friend. She does a lot of good - she's like the female John Walsh.

dakotadog
09-14-2006, 06:11 PM
I love Nancy Grace...............................

kitten4762
09-14-2006, 06:42 PM
How is Nancy Grace (or anybody else) to blame for someone's suicide?
That woman had free will...she alone had responsibility for her own actions...she put the gun to her own head. If the woman felt badgered by Nancy Grace or whoever, she could have said "Go to Hell". We all feel pressure...how we react to it is our own fault.
Nancy Grace can be abrasive to say the least, but she is determined to get to the bottom of what's going on and doesn't pussyfoot around with her questions, and I admire her for that.

teena
09-14-2006, 06:56 PM
And if she were a decent human being let alone a caring mother the last thing she would have done is take her own life while her child was missing.

dallas
09-15-2006, 07:50 AM
I saw the show too and no way is Nancy to blame. The mother couldn't give answers that were simple questions like" where did you go with Trenton", "why didn't you take a polygraph". Never saw the mother cry, reminded me of Susan Smith. You go on Nancy's show and you know what you are up against. Hopefully that mother didn't kill her son before she took her own life. Very sad all around.

MustWatchShopping
09-15-2006, 09:47 AM
Anyone that would kill themselves has no value of life, therefore it stands to reason that she did indeed kill her son.

elmo
09-15-2006, 01:23 PM
Also, the mom had some boyfriend(s) who didn't want children in the way of a relationship..........similiar to the Susan Smith murder case. I think Mom did something to the boy, whether it be sell him or kill him, she felt overwhelmed by the guilt, she had mental health issues, and she sold his car seat before he went missing and no evidence that she bought a new one. She, at least, is certainly involved in this in some way.

gojo
09-16-2006, 06:13 AM
I only wish before she killed herself she would have at least written a note stating where Trenton was.

They speak alot of her grandparents - does anyone know if her parents are around?

puddy
09-16-2006, 05:34 PM
I am not a fan of Nancy by any means but the interview was a taped interview. It aired after the suicide. (Bad taste, I agree.) I just don't see the reason for not answering yes or no to taking a polygraph. The father of the boy took one and admitted it. Also, what is the reason for not giving an account of her whereabouts before the kid went missing? She didn't have an attorney with her when she was interviewed so she was on her own, which was not too bright either. Why not tell where you were? Stores and gas stations have cameras. If you know you won't be appearing on them, you don't really have an answer.

Also, Mark Klaas has the same opinion. Why not answer a simple question and get yourself crossed off of the list so the police/FBI can move on ASAP? Her "YES" answer would also change the reaction of the general public and get people really looking.

Another point to consider - The obvious absence of Mark Lunsford. Leesburg and Homosassa are about an hour apart and his not being involved tells me a lot.

gojo
09-16-2006, 08:20 PM
That's a good point Puddy....