What do you think about your father?

[Abbey Road]

I love my father very much even though he has a bigger ego than Ted Nugent & David Lee Roth combined. He can't cope with the fact it seems to me that I'm a grown man living my own life. He also can't cope with the fact that I'm moving on, making my own money, doing my own thing. I'm looking for that special lady with a great personality, great body, great legs & sexy feet & I know I will satisfy her. His named is Butch, he's in his 60's, he buys cigars a lot & he's kind of a control freak. He doesn't take anything I say seriously, but it doesn't matter anyway, since I have my creativity, which he can't take away & I will have my beautiful lady very soon.

[sueshe]

My father had his hands full in my family. My mother was a full blown alcoholic, who did nothing for our family. Her favorite past time was how much vodka she could drink in 24 hours. Later in life, as I seperated from my family, (5 years) due to her drinking, my husband and I did very well in life. I have 2 other brothers who don't work hard, one doesn't believe in our govt, the other is heavy and very lazy. They make very little money.
When my father came back in my life, he couldn't believe our success. He therefore, wanted to cut me out of the will and give everything to my 2 brothers. I was hurt beyond belief. I am one of 3 children and should not be treated any different. I fought for my rights, and when he passed, I did receive my 1/3. I did find out thou, that my father would give very large gifts of money on several occasions to my 2 brothers behind my back. And he also gave a lot to "his other grandchildren" and mine got nothing.
So the moral of my story, I loved my father, but did not respect him, as he was a very unfair man. I don't care about the money, I just wanted to be treated the same. The best thing of all is that I have 3 great children. We do so much together, and love each other, show it all the time. That is the greatest lesson I have learned.......Love!

[Linda Lou]

My Father had a terrific sense of humor. He could talk to anyone, and people really enjoyed his company. He was very strict, but tried to be fair. I miss him very much.

[pebbles]

My Dad was a very wise person and was full of fun at the same time. He sacrificed alot for his children and literally worked himself to death. I wish he could be here to see how well we have all done and to see his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. I remember one thing he told me very well. When I asked him why good people die young and evil people seem to live long lives, he said that God was giving the bad people a chance to change.

[Hershey]

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Huh? Behind your back? You mean your father had to check with you before he spent his money? Interesting viewpoint you have, sueshe.

[sueshe]

Interesting view point? LOL My brothers didn't make much money because they were very lazy and didn't want to work. My brother lived with my father, didn't pay a dime for anything for 42 years. No utilities, no rent, no nothing. Then he give him money behind my back. My husband and I worked very very hard for our money. Yes, I expect to be treated equal and not labeled. I don't treat any of my children different. I give to all of them the same, and will do so at death. I don't think it is kind to give more to one than the other, as it causes hardship. And that, it did an in so many ways.

[Hershey]

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Interesting view point? LOL My brothers didn't make much money because they were very lazy and didn't want to work. My brother lived with my father, didn't pay a dime for anything for 42 years. No utilities, no rent, no nothing. Then he give him money behind my back. My husband and I worked very very hard for our money. Yes, I expect to be treated equal and not labeled. I don't treat any of my children different. I give to all of them the same, and will do so at death. I don't think it is kind to give more to one than the other, as it causes hardship. And that, it did an in so many ways.
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LOL back at 'ya for completely missing my point, sueshe. It was your "behind your back" comment that was my point. As if your father has to ask your permission for how he spends his money. "Behind your back?" Like he did something sneaky with his own money? OK you disapprove. But since when does he have to ask your permission for how he uses his own money?
That was my point. Obviously how you think he should spend is money isn't the same as how he thinks he should spend his money; problem is, it's his money to spend, not yours.

[nightsky]

My dad was a mean and abusive drunk.I was afraid of him.He cared nothing about his wife, kids or grandkids.He was a very selfish man.Three years before he died he stopped drinking.The doctors told him if he didn't he would die.He was very ill with lots of different things.I helped him the best I could.I would clean his house, shop and cook and go to his doctor appointments with him and keep him company.He was in the hospital several weeks before he died.That was a hard time.Physically, my dad was always the stongest man I have ever known and he had become so weak that he couldn't even take the plastic lid off his water pitcher...I did it for him and then turned and left the room...crying like a baby...looking for a bathroom so I could compose myself and have a few minutes alone.I stayed with him at the hospital day and night...he begged me not to leave.I just couldn't turn my back on him.He finally got out of the hospital and was so glad to get back home.That very night about midnight...my mom was with him and they were talking and it was raining and my dad turned the TV off so he could hear the rain.My mom said that my dad told her, "When I get to feeling better I want to do something nice for Terri (that's me) because of all the nice things she has done for me." And then he slumped over dead.It was that quick.My mom called 911 and she is an R.N. and started CPR.When the paramedics got there they said they worked on him all the way to the hospital but couldn't bring him back.He has been gone 9 years now.I pray he found his peace.

[pebbles]

Nightsky, that moved me to tears. I am sorry it took losing his health for him to realize that he had a wonderful daughter. Sad, sad, sad.

[Curvigirl]

Interesting question to pose on Mother's Day!

[nightsky]

My dad had never given me any birthday or Christmas gifts.

The last Christmas he was with us he gave me a bracelet and a matching ring.

They mean the world to me.

Sometimes I really miss him.

[Linda Lou]

Nightsky, I'm with Pebbles.......your first post was very moving, and it speaks volumes for you that you were there for your Father despite everything.

[Linda Lou]

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My Dad was a very wise person and was full of fun at the same time. He sacrificed alot for his children and literally worked himself to death. I wish he could be here to see how well we have all done and to see his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. I remember one thing he told me very well. When I asked him why good people die young and evil people seem to live long lives, he said that God was giving the bad people a chance to change.
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Your Dad must have been a wonderful person, Pebbles.

I love his answer to you about people's lifespans. Perfect! lol

[puddy]

He's the bomb and he would do anything for me. He's a hard worker and so smart, he's scary. And he's a great golfer! I'm very lucky.

[turtley2]

Interesting to read this too. My father passed away 5 months ago and we are still devestated. He was only 59. Counceling helps, but only so much. My dad was a wonderful person.... I know everyone has to deal with the death of a loved one at some point in their life. but I had made it so far! i'm only 37 and in the past three years have lost both of my grandparents, mother AND father-in-law, and then my dad, all to cancer. The only good thing is I have no regrets, all of them knew how much they meant to me. That's the only words of advice I could give to anyone seeking it-it sounds cliche' but try to treat your loved ones as if this is the last day you will have with them, since it just may be.

[nightsky]

Thank you Pebbles and Linda Lou.

I just couldn't turn my back on him.

He was only 59 when he died...he looked 80 and was so sick and was suffering with many different things.

He was sad and for the most part, alone...he was being paid back for the kind of life he led.

I just realized one day that I wasn't that scared little girl anymore and he wasn't anything to fear...he had turned into a sick, old and lonely man who needed help and that's what I gave him.

[Linda Lou]

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My dad was a wonderful person.... I know everyone has to deal with the death of a loved one at some point in their life. but I had made it so far! i'm only 37 and in the past three years have lost both of my grandparents, mother AND father-in-law, and then my dad, all to cancer. The only good thing is I have no regrets, all of them knew how much they meant to me. That's the only words of advice I could give to anyone seeking it-it sounds cliche' but try to treat your loved ones as if this is the last day you will have with them, since it just may be.
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Good sound advice, Turtley, and very relevant in my own life right now.

Sorry to hear of the loss of your loved ones.

[turtley 2]

Thank you Linda Lou... Everyone has to deal with death at one point in life, but you don't really know how it feels until it happens to you. Keep your chin up and try to look at the positive :)

[Bettina]

My father is dead, may he rest in peace.

[sueshe]

Missing the point. LMAO......you are missing the point. When my father told my brothers not to tell me about his generous gifts to them, then I have real problem with that. If you have no guilt in what you do, then you should have no problem in telling the others why you did it. It is the one who tries to cover it up, know the pain that it can cause if it is found out. I did, days before he died. My father did it to me so many times, in so many ways. The money was just a big part of it! Love was the bigger part!
And yes, the pain that was inflicted to me by both parents didn't stop me from being there when they died. My father was sick, I was called to help figure out a solution to his needs. A 3 day trip ended up being 6 weeks, as he had terminal lung cancer. I stayed to the end, no matter how I was treated, and would do it again. I can take a lot of pain, I just don't like it!!!
Enough said!

[hoosiergirl]

My dad, bless him, passed away in 1979. The longer he's gone, the smarter he gets. The best advice he ever gave me was "learn to type - it'll pay the bills." Boy, was he right!!

[Abbey Road]

I love my father very much, as I have said before, but I'm NOT like him at all, I just have his name.

[MrsJohnDoe]

Hello all!! Interesting posts, indeed. I was adopted at the age of 6 months, and VIVIDLY remember my Dad threatening to "Send your a$$ back to the orphanage" quite often. This of course, was not good. He was very demanding, cheated on my Mom all throughout their 50+ years, was very verbally abusive, always telling me how much of a loser I was, and would never amount to anything. I loved my Dad, but had NO respect for him. He was much more interested in that sea hag girlfriend of his and her litter than he was with us. And the rotten part was he would stop by my house after I got married and tell me about all the fun he had with them!!! He never took us anywhere, and went on vacations with OTHER people...never us. When my appendix ruptured when I was 17, he drove me to the hospital and left me there alone. The Dr. asked where was a parent?? I said I didn't know. He didn't want to hang around so he just left. I was scared to death, to say the least. So I signed a paper with about 30 Dr.s and nurses putting their sigs on it because I was under-aged, and no one to sign the surgery papers. Anyway, there came a time when my Dad ended up in the nursing home, and I went over there every other day for almost 2 years, and did my best to help him in any way I could. He would NOT have done the same for me, but I'm not him. He wanted me when it best suited him, and sadly that hurt. But, he thanked me profusely when I would help him at the home, and realized just who his friends AND family really were, and the only 2 who went there to see him were me and my Mom. I loved him, despite all the nasty things, and only wished he had loved me back. I suppose he maybe did in his own way. He did tell me before he died he loved me. I wish I'd heard it sooner, but at least I heard it. I hope he has found peace, and if nothing else, he knew I was there for him, and maybe not so bad after all. GodBless----------MrsJohnDoe

[amber]

oh gawd excuse me before I start gagging !!

First off Abby You so full of shit your eyes are brown and I don't believe half of what you say.

Others man you are holding onto grudges that should have died years ago. Move on with your lifes. Life goes on and quit spending it in the past will ya ?

God I could go on and on about what an asshole my father was as well. But what good would that do ?

Nothing. You can't change the past you can only move foward

which is what some of you need to do.

[bsd]

Amber do you know who your father is??????????????

[amber]

yes I do and your lucky he is six feet under

because my dad was 6'7 and 250 pounds and he'd woop your ass for talking to his daughter the way you are now wuss !!!

Believe me you would get your ass beat for that question. My daddy kill ya !

[bsd]

I'd mop the floor with his punk ass.

[amber]

my father would fuck you up so bad you wouldnt no what hit you asshole.

[Teacher]

That he was a wonderful, giving and caring man. He fought in WWII and helped clean up the concentration camps.

[amber]

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That he was a wonderful, giving and caring man. He fought in WWII and helped clean up the concentration camps.
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who's father are we talking about ?

[bsd]

**my father would fuck you up so bad you wouldnt no what hit you asshole**


He probably would amber because I am too much of a chickenshit coward to log in using my real name as Yippie9.

[amber]

okay that would so fucking stupid, nobody fucking cares who you are idiot !!

[Valentina]

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Missing the point. LMAO......you are missing the point. When my father told my brothers not to tell me about his generous gifts to them, then I have real problem with that. If you have no guilt in what you do, then you should have no problem in telling the others why you did it. It is the one who tries to cover it up, know the pain that it can cause if it is found out. I did, days before he died. My father did it to me so many times, in so many ways. The money was just a big part of it! Love was the bigger part!
And yes, the pain that was inflicted to me by both parents didn't stop me from being there when they died. My father was sick, I was called to help figure out a solution to his needs. A 3 day trip ended up being 6 weeks, as he had terminal lung cancer. I stayed to the end, no matter how I was treated, and would do it again. I can take a lot of pain, I just don't like it!!!
Enough said!
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Maybe he just didn't want to listen to you complain about it. Just a thought.

[Valentina]

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yes I do and your lucky he is six feet under

because my dad was 6'7 and 250 pounds and he'd woop your ass for talking to his daughter the way you are now wuss !!!

Believe me you would get your ass beat for that question. My daddy kill ya !
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Wow. 6'7 is very tall. May I ask how tall you are, and how tall was your mother? This is very interesting to me.

[amber]

I am 5'10

my mother was only 5'2 believe it or not a

[Valentina]

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I am 5'10

my mother was only 5'2 believe it or not a
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They must have looked so cute together! 5'10 is very tall for a women. My mother-in-law is 5'10, my husband is 6'2. He gets his height from her side of the family.

[amber]

Isnt that how it works

Guys get it from there mothers side and girls get it from there fathers side ?

[Valentina]

I'm short (5'3) like my mother.

[amber]

oh I see, then I guess that's just a myth

[bsd]

And Amber has a dick just like her mother.

[amber]

and your a fucking asshole who's mother is ashamed of you

[bsd]

How many times do you hit the refresh button a day?

[MrsJohnDoe]

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oh gawd excuse me before I start gagging !!

First off Abby You so full of shit your eyes are brown and I don't believe half of what you say.

Others man you are holding onto grudges that should have died years ago. Move on with your lifes. Life goes on and quit spending it in the past will ya ?

God I could go on and on about what an asshole my father was as well. But what good would that do ?

Nothing. You can't change the past you can only move foward

which is what some of you need to do.
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I don't believe we are holding on to grudges, at least speaking for myself, I'm not. I loved my Dad, but just didn't care for the way he treated us. He was the type of person who couldn't be pleased, no matter what. I realized that early on and dealt with it accordingly. I am not stuck in a rut because of my Dad. In fact, I give him the credit for making me a lot more tolerant of things simply because he was NOT. If peoples posts have you "gagging", then don't read them. Obviously some people on here aren't up to your standards, but after reading your posts, I suggest you grow up. It looks very juvenile for someone to use all the insults you do to people instead of having a civil disagreement. When you grow up, maybe people will listen, but from all the posts I've seen of yours, it won't happen any time soon. ----MJD

[amber]

Well MrsJohnDoe if you are what is mature, let me never be mature.

You are a judgemental asshole who has no respect for anyone but yourself. You are selifsh and a complete asshole.

Love the fact you call yourself mrs. Obviously you are one to do whatever hubby tells you to do.

You don't know me or what I have been through so don't judge till you have walked in my desginer High heals bitch face slut.

Your a fucking bitch
I hope you know that.

[Teacher]

I remember when this board was free of insults, and obscenitites. This is depressing.

[amber]

mmmmm I dunno when that ever fucking was ? I"ve been here for 7 years and have yet to see it free of insults !

[bsd]

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That was before Scamber showed up.

[amber]

um no it was fucking was you asshole and you just insulted me so fuck off and fuck you !

[puddy]

Hoosier Girl - Great line! I will remember that one! And I will use it too! :)

[MrsJohnDoe]

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Well MrsJohnDoe if you are what is mature, let me never be mature.

You are a judgemental asshole who has no respect for anyone but yourself. You are selifsh and a complete asshole.

Love the fact you call yourself mrs. Obviously you are one to do whatever hubby tells you to do.

You don't know me or what I have been through so don't judge till you have walked in my desginer High heals bitch face slut.

Your a fucking bitch
I hope you know that.
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Ah....your lack of intelligence is once again evident. You are quite predictable. It's unfortunate that you cannot communicate any better than you do. But, maybe when you grow up that will change.

[amber]

If you are what is called grown up then I don't ever ever want to grow up

bitch

[MrsJohnDoe]

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If you are what is called grown up then I don't ever ever want to grow up

bitch
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That is all too obvious, but I do not wish to bandy (you may have to look that up) words with an idiot like you anymore, so i will just say Good Luck to you, because from what I have seen, you need it.

[amber]

and so do you. Your the one fighting with me, so what do you think that makes you look like to people bitch ?

you look like a fucking idiot, worse then me dumbshit and everyones laughing at you.

but you keep coming back at me bitch, keep fucking doing it bitch, keep it up you fucking cunt and see how good you look you stupid ass bitch.

Fuck off and rot in hell were a fucking bitch like you should go

just fuck off, you stupid fucking whroe, fuck the hell off bitch.

fuck off nobody likes you, you smelly bored ass bitch ? what are you bored out of your fucking midn so you have to harrass me.

Oh golly you made fun of my spelling mistakes, you werent the fucking first nor will your fucking stupid ass be the last dumb ass bitch !!!

Must suck when that's all you have on someone

take another shit bitch, take it

[feeler poobah]

amber does anybody like you? you just run your mouth(when you don't have a dirty dick in it) like a ducks ass you bitch and bitch and bitch now we all know why the dildo left and the batteries stayed.your pal POOBAH.

[amber]

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amber does anybody like you? you just run your mouth(when you don't have a dirty dick in it) like a ducks ass you bitch and bitch and bitch now we all know why the dildo left and the batteries stayed.your pal POOBAH.
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yep lots of people love me, I have more friends at thsi board then anyone.

Just ask...who likes you, besides people you have to make up ?

[amber]

btw feeler pooh have you listened to your nasty mouth at all fuckwad ? Shut the fuck up, if you don't like my talk don't talk back.

but if you really think your gonna get the last word in on me dumb fucker, you will be so wrong !! Idiot !

[feeler poobah]

i don't worry about getting the last word in see just as long as i get to chat with my friend amber then i'm happy . i just hope your kids from the 6 different men you had them from talk just like you when they grow up your a good example of a real lady.

[amber]

mmmmmmmm you like pulling shit out of your ass.

I just love it, how you fucking sit there all cocky like you think you are really getting to me. I bet you have this shit eating grin of a smile on your face. Like your so fucking good, when everyone else thinks your a fucking idiot. Yep keep working it big boy. The only person you are making look bad, is your shit ugly face.

LOL this is kinda fun dipshit you don't know what the fuck your talking about. Keep making yourself look like the fucking ass you are. You do a good job at it, you fucking moron !

and keep on fucking thinking you are somehow getting to me, I know that's what your dumbass thinks, but your just my pawn nothing more you fucking idiot.

[feeler poobah]

didn't i say the exact same thing to you like two weeks ago damn your way behind.

[feeler poobah]

didn't i say the exact same thing to you like two weeks ago damn your way behind.

[feeler poobah]

incase your fuckface didn't understand the first time i posted twice you know your a little behind in the times. i think your falling for me yep but sorry i'm taken.

[amber]

oh you think I read your bullshit ? sorry I can't fucking understand it, let alone try to read your fucking bullshit.

falling for you ? whatever turns your world on homeboy

[feeler poobah]

yeah baby you want the poobah bad but see i don't go for canyon twats, but good try i do have to commend you on one thing i've never chatted with anybody who could play par for course have it in the butt,the twat and in the mouth while typing all at the same time three holes in one.

[amber]

sure, sure whatever asshole, whatever turns your sick world on. Go for it fucker