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ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 07:36 AM

Why are people catty and vicious?

It seems for a very long time at this board, people have been pretty hell bent on the idea of making me feel crap when I post. I'm not exactly sure why, or whats going on. But it is definitely something I taken note of.

I'm also hearing from various sources over recent months that people who I don't even have associations with in the last few months or years at the board have been discussing and plotting things to entice a fight with me on the board.

Again.....I'm not exactly sure what is going on or where this is going.

But I figured I would make a quick note at the board to those doing it, I'm not some one who is going to passively sit back and take taunts and assaults at this board with out reason or defense.

I come here to post my thoughts and opinions on various subjects and bother no one in return and the only thing I expect is the same in return.

So whoever is bothering me and thinking that they are cool for putting me down and making me feel bad about who I am, they aren't, they are only serving to make themselves look like a clown in the end.

Irishrose395

04-26-2009, 07:51 AM

Chicago, are you ok?

I enjoy reading your posts and hearing what you have to say. :)

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 08:13 AM

Hi IrishRose :)

I can't really say I'm doing OK today. Kinda just sick of taking the crap and allowing others to run wherever they want to with whatever they feel they have the right to say about me, whenever they want to.

Its not fun when you just come here to post and you have others harp and watch your every move only to discuss you behind your back and then serve to ignore and make you feel lousy about yourself on the board, for whatever amusement or entertainment you are to that person and the cruelty at the given moment.

I've never been the type to let others put me down or not stick up for myself, if I did anything less then that, I would only be conforming myself to a standard that I don't really care for.

itzg...

04-26-2009, 08:35 AM

Hi ChicagoDiva, not sure what's been going on here, I have been away and really only do fly-bys anymore here, so I don't know who's been hassling you.

Remember this, as a 'true diva' you must now that people will be jealous and will want to start stuff just because, lol.

Don't let 'em get you down, hon. You've grown into an intelligent, erudite young woman!

Love ya~
G

Danielle

04-26-2009, 08:52 AM

Amber I have no idea in the world what you are talking about? I"m not here very much but I haven't seen anyone trying to start anything with you? I don't know what to tell you, everyone has lost such interest in the board it's not even discussed anymore.

Sorry you feel this way, and I hope you work it out xo

Mackey

04-26-2009, 08:57 AM

Gosh, am glad I dropped by! Amber-----have no idea who is bad mouthing you..I am not registered, so I would not know anyway---BUT-----You KNOW I like and admire you..have for a very long time. Sometimes just one poster loves to start stuff, cause it is what they do..just ignore that type, and you stay being the girl we admire most on this board who has 'come a long way baby'----Now off to the beach, getting a summer day, after the brutal winter. Stay as you are!

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 08:58 AM

That just happens to be the problem G, when one is comfortable with their sexuality, attitude, and appearance and has no problem with being that way, they are some how made to feel bad about themselves.

I have been enticed in recent and then dealt with denials to get more info and gossip about my personals, then have these people push me to the side, only so they can run rampid with my life for their own amusment and jokes at the given moment.

I don't know about most people, but I can tell you first hand, its not fun having to go and tell a friend or a family member about your "Internet fun games" that mean nothing, just in case something bad ever happens to you, because of assholes and their threats of intimidation's.

It is hurtful and it is cruel to me and if you don't think it hurts me or my feelings aren't hurt or that I'm suppose to just lie down and some how take this, you are sorely mistaken. I am not going to be bullied by any one at this board for any of things in my life or what I choice to do with it or what I choose to post at on this board.

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 09:03 AM

The people I discuss the board with, haven't seem to have lost interest in it. I haven't.

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Amber I have no idea in the world what you are talking about? I"m not here very much but I haven't seen anyone trying to start anything with you? I don't know what to tell you, everyone has lost such interest in the board it's not even discussed anymore.

Sorry you feel this way, and I hope you work it out xo

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Danielle

04-26-2009, 09:06 AM

again Amber no idea what you are talking about instead of making everyone wonder why not say who is doing this stuff or contact them off the board?

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 09:14 AM

I question if I'm making people wonder or not what I am bringing up at the boards. My instincts tell me I'm not, but others say no, so it's a tuff call.

I am a poster, a person, a human who has just as much right as anyone to say things and step in when they don't feel comfortable about others running around with personals about them.

and just because one doesn't happen to like the defensive I am bringing up, doesn't mean I don't have the option or the right as a poster on a public message board to use it and state what is bothering me and my perception on things, just because that perception doesn't suit others perception of things.

Danielle

04-26-2009, 09:17 AM

colour me confused no one I know is talking about you, can't help ya sorry

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 09:17 AM

I hope you enjoy your time at the beach Mackey and thank you for your words of encouragement.

You are right, I'm not one to let some low lives who have nothing better to do then to taunt and assault me bring me down. Some thing I learned a long time ago in my childhood as a young kid , was never to allow others to bring me down or stop being who I am or believing in what I believe in just to suit others. You only have one life, you might as well use it well and make yourself happy in the end. And not let envious and Jealous people bring you down.

Thank you Mackey, your post brought a smile to my face and your words, are words of encouragement that I will cherish forever.

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Gosh, am glad I dropped by! Amber-----have no idea who is bad mouthing you..I am not registered, so I would not know anyway---BUT-----You KNOW I like and admire you..have for a very long time. Sometimes just one poster loves to start stuff, cause it is what they do..just ignore that type, and you stay being the girl we admire most on this board who has 'come a long way baby'----Now off to the beach, getting a summer day, after the brutal winter. Stay as you are!

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ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 09:22 AM

I just want to add and it relates kind of back to Mackeys posts, but it also relates to my time and my experience at the board since I was 15 years old. I was never one who stood around and let other posters bring me down to their levels of cruelty.

I remember there being times when I could not bare to come to these board and see another subtle jab post directed my way and see another sleezy thing written about me in a round about way.

But not anymore, now I come here to post for myself and share my own opinions and if people want to talk about me behind their back, I'll confront them, no problem at all.

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 09:38 AM

hope that nobody is coming in and viewing this and then taking this topic for discussion about me behind my back and then acting oblivious when the topic is open for discussion once and for all.

I also want to add, that I don't like posting with people who view me as a threat, or some one who they feel they need to talk about behind their back. I don't like posting with people who view me as a trouble maker, and I don't like posting with people who go around and say untruths about me.

And if I'm going to be so honest, I can't stand people who have the guts to say things behind one's back with out having the gall to tell them that to their face and that they are doing it.

Anyone who has posted with me in the last 8 years knows that about me.

Irishrose395

04-26-2009, 10:06 AM

Chicago

I think you're a cool lass. :) Be proud. I have no problems with you at all you're very intelgent and confident from what I can tell. Cheer up lass.

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 10:14 AM

In looking a bit further in this, I guess making this thread won't win me any favors with the individuals who were having so much fun harassing me and running around mocking me.

I ask why would I care? I figured I would start this thread once and for all, just to see if the guts of doing what they were doing was going to show up. I guess it ran scared.

I suppose by ignoring this, we can still talk about chicagodiva behind chicagodivas back and make chicagodiva feel like shit when chicagodiva just comes to post and doesn't bother anyone at all.

That's fine if others want it to be that way, but remember I will and have basically been ignoring back, and since I'm not doing anything to you and your bothering me, that really doesn't make you look good.

Also remember it was your choice, so when you see me posting, don't worry about me or my posts and don't go and talk about me in private, I don't talk about you, why are you talking about me?

I owe no loyalties at all to those who lie to me and ignore me and treat me like shit and then think they still have a right of passage way into my life and to talk about me to other posters, like who do they think they are and think is so special about them, that they can never get confronted on that? And some one is just suppose to be expected to bend over and kiss there ass, when they are making fun of them and their life. Who and what the hell gives these individuals the right? And to think I'm not suppose to defend myself about it?

unreal !

in any event, I just thought I would bring this up once and for all, because it really seemed to be bothering me. Since nobody else is talking, I assume it will go nowhere, but I feel better now in stating my opinion and where I stand.

Happy sunday everyone !

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 10:15 AM

Thanks Irishrose, its people like you who really make coming to these boards a fun experince for me :)

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Chicago

I think you're a cool lass. :) Be proud. I have no problems with you at all you're very intelgent and confident from what I can tell. Cheer up lass.

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Pal

04-26-2009, 10:38 AM

AMBER!!!!! What the hell is going on?? You aren't one to walk on egg shells! Tell us what you're talking about. You know I love ya and if someone is bad mouthing you or talking about you, I want to know about it.

You have too many people who care deeply about you to play games with us and not fill us in. Honestly, I can't think of one person who would have a beef with you. And I know that no one has EVER said a word against you to me........ Probably because they know I'd go on an ass kicking binge, lol :)

Are you sure you aren't mistaken or that someone isn't trying to hurt you by lying?

You have good friends Amber and no one that we know would say anything about you. I almost POSITIVE of that.

xxxxoooo

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 10:49 AM

Hi Pal
Good to see you. I'm not sure who it is or how it began, or who is even my friend anymore at this board.

I will tell you though, I suspect posting in kind with you in the past or with others in general as seemed to have gotten me in trouble in the past and only serves to make others go ape shit behind the scenes and run with rampid conspiracy theories about me.

Isn't it funny? I can't even come here to post in general and nicely with people, without having some one read to much into what I say.

When you get harped on and have everyone down your neck, it gets old and makes you not want to come and post anymore.

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 10:52 AM

I just want to say something else, I guess I should state my feelings when they are bothering me instead of letting them subside inside like this for so long.

But bringing people in to take cover for you or clean up your mess and bringing other people in to fight with me when I never had any ill will towards that person, is the lowest form a human being can take. Don't have your friends cover and take hold for you. Be an adult and stand up for yourself.

You are only escalating a fight in which you perpetrated, and are acting like infant expecting mother to clean up the spill for you.

Zippy

04-26-2009, 10:54 AM

Amber

Im sorry...I wish I could help you

But like I mentioned in my email a few weeks ago...I HAVE no idea who it is talking about you. I see this is still bothering you...and I wish I could do or say something to help you out.

But I am at a loss

xoxoxox

Pal

04-26-2009, 10:59 AM

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Hi Pal
Good to see you. I'm not sure who it is or how it began, or who is even my friend anymore at this board.

I will tell you though, I suspect posting in kind with you in the past or with others in general as seemed to have gotten me in trouble in the past and only serves to make others go ape shit behind the scenes and run with rampid conspiracy theories about me.

Isn't it funny? I can't even come here to post in general and nicely with people, without having some one read to much into what I say.

When you get harped on and have everyone down your neck, it gets old and makes you not want to come and post anymore.

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Someone is upset with you for posting with ME? Well crap Amber, I'm sorry to hear that. I've got to tell you, I am totally confused and I wish you'd explain what's going on. PM me if you don't want to talk about it here. You know I will always back you up in any disagreement, especially if I'm partly responsible and you are getting the flack for it.

You have always defended me in the past and I'm here for you if you need me. I am going to read some of your recent posts to see if I can figure out what's going on.......

I love ya Amber and if there is one person here who is back stabbing you, they are probably doing it to others. You have enough friends that you shouldn't let one sneak bother you.

((HUGS))

beachreader

04-26-2009, 11:07 AM

I enjoy reading your posts and I am sorry for whatever is happening. =(

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 11:23 AM

I'm kind feeling a bit emotional right now and some times wonder if I read to much into things that aren't there. Perphas I have been spending to much time online in recent events and have found myself overthinking things out of bordem. Who knows....

but in any event and there happens to be a case of some one thinking they could make me afraid of them or was or were or are taunting and assulting me, they are wrong. Nobody can change me or make me confirm to them or not say how I am feeling about them and what they are saying and doing.

To answer Zippy and Pals questions about the sources of information. Thats interesting that you guys ask that question. I won't name anyones name on this board, because I don't want to reck anyones fun because I just happend to pissed off today.

But there are people who have told me for years that all Dani, zippy, Wildflower and a few others do is bad mouth me and make fun of me behind the scenes.

I never believed it, I still don't and don't take as anything. But I have a big problem posting with those indviduals who said that to and about me and people who I feel I have shared a special bond with at this board.

It really pisses me off because these indviduals that said those comments are people who have talked about me and my life for years on end behind my back and pretened to be my friend only to gossip about me and to this day with out any contact with me, will feel they have the right to do so.

There is really only two indivudals I really would like to kill right about now.

1. One is some one who I am not shocked by their actions at all and is completely and totally my own fault for getting invloved with this indivudaul. I won't say anything more for the sake of not offending anyone.

2. The other person is some one who I never would think would do this. Does not potray themseleves to be this way on the board. Was the person who I thought I had the deepest bond with, and if I would share personals, I would share it with this person.

Over the years I supsected #2 was nothing more then a two faced bitch. Some would argue a stepford housewife who is bitter and hasn't gotten laid in years. who sat there and gosspied about everyones life and everyone at the board and played games for their own sake of ruling.

nobody will confront this person on doing it, but they are allowed to do it. Go around and talk about me like its nothing. When I don't assoiscate with them IN YEARS. Its not like people don't this person is a bitter stepford housewife and thats fine that others ignore it.

I just don't think its right that certain people like that get to talk about me and others and bad mouth me and know the gossip and never have anything done to them and continue to get to laugh about me and talk about me, because I don't like them and won't kiss there ass for the ~DIRTY~ games they play and have played on this board.

They may be gone now, they may not be posting now, but there lurking and they are reading this and always having to be in the loop about what is concerning me, as if it is their business.

Danielle

04-26-2009, 11:28 AM

Amber honestly I don't get any of this, as for anyone saying I talked about you off the board lol tell them you want to see e-mails or pm's cuz there ain't any. That was brought up during all the past fighting and when those people were asked to show proof they didn't have any..

I just don't see what you are trying to say..

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 11:37 AM

perphas I should stop, and take a break for awhile. Maybe I'm seeing things that don't exist.

But to those people who think that they were some how going to my friend when everything was said and done, they are wrong. And they need to know that, if by chance what I am thinking happens to be true. And these comments are only directed at the people who are doing it but don't have the gall to say what they are doing and just expect others to clean up their mess for them. No they are grown adults, I wasn't offered a hand, fuck them and they need to grow up and mind their own business !!!

I'm sorry you and Zippy and Pal got dragged into this. You shouldn't have. I'm sorry I brought your names up. Doesn't mean I think anything bad of you on this end.

Monicauf

04-26-2009, 11:40 AM

Amber- I don't know if you are reading into things that are not there or not, I know for myself I do that in my own personal life. I like you and wish you would post more often, I am not sure what is going on, but where is your spunk that I love? If someone does not like what you say or who you are talking to then tell them to fuck off

Zippy

04-26-2009, 11:43 AM

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perphas I should stop, and take a break for awhile. Maybe I'm seeing things that don't exist.

But to those people who think that they were some how going to my friend when everything was said and done, they are wrong. And they need to know that, if by chance what I am thinking happens to be true. And these comments are only directed at the people who are doing it but don't have the gall to say what they are doing and just expect others to clean up their mess for them. No they are grown adults, I wasn't offered a hand, fuck them and they need to grow up and mind their own business !!!

I'm sorry you and Zippy and Pal got dragged into this. You shouldn't have. I'm sorry I brought your names up. Doesn't mean I think anything bad of you on this end.

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Still as confused as ever lol

It stopped raining out ...why not go for a walk to clear your head and see if you still feel the same way after?!?

I wish I knew what the hell was going on..but I have not a clue

Love ya...hope you feel better..or at least come to some terms with it.

Pal

04-26-2009, 11:48 AM

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I'm sorry you and Zippy and Pal got dragged into this. You shouldn't have. I'm sorry I brought your names up. Doesn't mean I think anything bad of you on this end.

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OMG, Amber, I swear to God on my kid's lives that I have never said anything negative about you behind your back. EVER. Years ago when you were posting as Roseanne fan, I might have commented about you on the board but never did I talk to anyone about you off the board or behind your back. I swear on that Amber and if you know me at all, you know I would NEVER do that and lie.

If someone told you that, they are a fucking liar and I deserve to know who it was.

Someone is starting shit and they are a troublemaker. I want to be able to confront them and prove them to be the liar they are.

I have always considered you a dear friend and I still do. In fact, the last time your name was EVER mentioned to me was by Girl and it was years ago. She said your emails were so articulate that she thought you might be an educated wife who was bored. This was when she was first talking to you. I said I thought you were just an intelligent teenager who had been through a lot.

That certainly was not talking about you. In fact, I don't think anyone else has ever mentioned your name to me off the boards.

Amber, you need to let me know what's going on because someone is out and out lying and that's a fact.

Danielle

04-26-2009, 11:53 AM

Amber you might get mad at me for this post but I think you need to tell people who or what you are talking about, all this is doing is making people upset and stuff..People have a lot of other stuff going on in their lives, and I don't think this is fair..

Like I said you can get mad at me, but I think it's really unfair..I have never talked about you nor have I known Pal, Zip or Wildflower to talk badly about you. You're hardly ever around to do anything to talk about

if you're not going to say what is really going on I think it's time to drop it JMO and I love ya dearly but this is going to start nothing but trouble IMO.

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 11:58 AM

Pal
nobody has ever mentioned your name or you bad mouthing me ever. I never believed YOU bad mouthed me. I do think my theories are correct about others getting Jealous for whatever petty reasons they are feeling inside. And that's something that they need to work out with themselves.

But as far as anyone ever bad mouthing you to me, they never did. If they did, I would have told you.

I think more or less people fear you then anything. That's the impression I have always gotten when your name gets brought up.

How nice of you and that poster to say nice things about me.

As far as what I am saying here or what I am talking about on the board right now, this isn't something that you or anyone needs to worry about. I apologize your names got dragged into it, but some times when you need to make a point, you will conviently use things. Things that are true and what I stated was a true.

But this person isn't around, though I'm sure they are lurking, because they would lurk about things concerning me. They have in the past, so it wouldn't be wrong for me to assume that today.

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 12:00 PM

I will not refer to your names anymore, you guys don't need to be dragged into this.

As far as other things. There are men at this board as well who have sexually assaulted me. Things that if taken into question, would paint them bad.

I will conviently edit things out of my pms and emails to make them look bad.

MikeRotch

04-26-2009, 12:10 PM

I hope you get things worked out.

Pal

04-26-2009, 12:21 PM

Amber,
Are you okay??? I am so totally confused.......

You know I'm here if you want to talk to me, ever. I'm sorry you feel that someone is out to get you or hurt you. I am completely and totally oblivious to what you're talking about but I don't want to push you to talk about it.

I am glad that you know I wouldn't ever talk about you negatively to anyone. It upset me to think that you did or that someone said I did.

You should know me well enough by now to know that I have no fear in telling someone what I think. And if I EVER got upset with you about anything, I would immediately come to you about it. Not talk about you behind your back. That's not how I am and never will be.

I just wish I understood what's happened for you to come here out of the blue and post like this.

If you are afraid of someone or if someone is threatening you, you need to tell us. Obviously, there is something going on behind the scenes that I'm not aware of.

I'm giving you a big big ((((((HUG)))))) and asking you to be honest with us about what's going on :(

Mandy

04-26-2009, 12:29 PM

Amber, as others have responded, I am also at a loss as to who would have the nerve to bad mouth you to any of your friends here. You should know after all the years we have posted together that we would just not allow that to happen, kiddo.

Love ya, Amber, and hope you are feeling better about things soon.

(((((HUGS)))))

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 12:45 PM

Pal and Mandy.
thanks for saying such nice things to me about that. And thanks for always being my friend and being there for me, even when you didn't have to be. It does mean a lot.

Pal
I just don't think that is something that would ever make sense to you, there are things that have been said to for years and stuff that goes back years, things you were never around to see or had any thing to do with.

But just know that I will never stop posting because of what others are saying or doing.

And just know that anything that comes up of this or if anyone tells me things about you or that you are bad mouthing me, it isn't something I will believe and will take and show you in private.

I guess I'm just really been bored these last couple of weeks and I am thinking things that don't make sense to anyone. lol.....it happens I guess. Maybe I should take a break for a bit now.

((HUGS)) and Love you guys.

Pal

04-26-2009, 12:46 PM

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But like I mentioned in my email a few weeks ago...I HAVE no idea who it is talking about you. I see this is still bothering you...and I wish I could do or say something to help you out.

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I'm not sure what's going on but apparently this is not the first time Amber was upset?

Pal

04-26-2009, 12:54 PM

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Pal and Mandy.
thanks for saying such nice things to me about that. And thanks for always being my friend and being there for me, even when you didn't have to be. It does mean a lot.

Pal
I just don't think that is something that would ever make sense to you, there are things that have been said to for years and stuff that goes back years, things you were never around to see or had any thing to do with.

But just know that I will never stop posting because of what others are saying or doing.

And just know that anything that comes up of this or if anyone tells me things about you or that you are bad mouthing me, it isn't something I will believe and will take and show you in private.

I guess I'm just really been bored these last couple of weeks and I am thinking things that don't make sense to anyone. lol.....it happens I guess. Maybe I should take a break for a bit now.

((HUGS)) and Love you guys.

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Amber,
It makes me sad that you would think any of us would talk about you. I am not sure what I've missed, but if it ever happened, I was never a part of it.

I see that you've been talking to Zippy about these concerns? I had no idea at all that you were upset. I wish I had because I would have emailed you.

I still don't know what's going on but I'll assume you can work it out with the people you're upset with.

Take a breather and don't let this stuff bother you so much. Whoever is telling you shit should step up and admit it. I don't know what their reasons are for doing it but don't believe everything you hear.

Again, I'm here if you need to talk.

I care about you amber....

Zippy

04-26-2009, 12:57 PM

Yeah...its been a concern for a while now Pal

But...Like I told Amber..if someone is messing around..I have not heard nothing.

Then again..nobody is likely to say anything to me...cuz they know me and Amber are pretty close.

So I dunno

All we can do is give Amber a big ol' hug and she likes when you rub her behind the ears :) lol

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 01:02 PM

I know you care Pal. I actually do have to log off now. But I know you always cared, I now know who the real ones that were that cared.

have a good day everyone.

KaliChris

04-26-2009, 01:25 PM

Hey Amber; I'm as confused as the rest of them. I haven't seen what's going on, but I hope you're okay.

KaliChris

04-26-2009, 01:27 PM

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I will not refer to your names anymore, you guys don't need to be dragged into this.

As far as other things. There are men at this board as well who have sexually assaulted me. Things that if taken into question, would paint them bad.

I will conviently edit things out of my pms and emails to make them look bad.

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No kidding? That's bad. :(

KaliChris

04-26-2009, 01:27 PM

I meant about being sexually assaulted.

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 01:32 PM

Hi kali. I'm okay, I think I'm just going to take a break for a bit. Some times my boredom I guess gets the better of me, just like every one else at one time or another at tv talk, in fact that's why were all here because were bored. lol

anyway I really didn't mean to get anyone's feelings hurt. So thanks everyone for the support.

I'm gonna just lay low now, for awhile. but I'm not mad at anyone, who is posting now. I just want that to be known.

I love all of you and always will. You have all become like mothers to me over the years. Thanks for always looking after me, and listening to my rants. lol

Happy Sunday.

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 01:35 PM

There were/are men at the board who have gone places with me through post, knowing things about me, and still going there. I didn't insinuate anything or prey anyone in privacy.

Just wanted to make that clear, in case of some thing.

I will take these things else where if the men wish to seek harm, my version will be better then there's.

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QUOTING FROM POSTER: KaliChris;1865613 (Post Number)

I meant about being sexually assaulted.

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KaliChris

04-26-2009, 01:35 PM

Amber, I think we all need breaks from time to time, and then we feel better and can come back and post like normal.

I enjoy your posts, so hopefully you won't have to lay low for too long.

{{{HUGZ}}}

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 01:36 PM

double post Kali, sorry, I hope that answered your question.

KaliChris

04-26-2009, 01:36 PM

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QUOTING FROM POSTER: ChicagoDiva;1865616 (Post Number)

There were/are men at the board who have gone places with me through post, knowing things about me, and still going there. I didn't insinuate anything or prey anyone in privacy.

Just wanted to make that clear, in case of some thing.

I will take these things else where if the men wish to seek harm, my version will be better then there's.

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QUOTING FROM POSTER: KaliChris;1865613 (Post Number)

I meant about being sexually assaulted.

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Oh, okay. I seem to remember you mentioning that in the past.

Irishrose395

04-26-2009, 01:48 PM

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QUOTING FROM POSTER: ChicagoDiva;1865521 (Post Number)

Thanks Irishrose, its people like you who really make coming to these boards a fun experince for me :)

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Chicago

I think you're a cool lass. :) Be proud. I have no problems with you at all you're very intelgent and confident from what I can tell. Cheer up lass.

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Thanks Chciago. I hope you start to feel better soon.

Pal

04-26-2009, 02:19 PM

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QUOTING FROM POSTER: ChicagoDiva;1865607 (Post Number)

I know you care Pal. I actually do have to log off now. But I know you always cared, I now know who the real ones that were that cared.

have a good day everyone.

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I just hope you get this straightened out. Take a little break and hopefully things will look better later.

(((((HUGS)))))

Pal

04-26-2009, 02:22 PM

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QUOTING FROM POSTER: Zippy;1865606 (Post Number)

Yeah...its been a concern for a while now Pal

But...Like I told Amber..if someone is messing around..I have not heard nothing.

Then again..nobody is likely to say anything to me...cuz they know me and Amber are pretty close.

So I dunno

All we can do is give Amber a big ol' hug and she likes when you rub her behind the ears :) lol

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I had no idea Zip. We're all friends here and I hope Amber realizes that.

That said.........I'm not rubbing behind her ears, lol

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 02:35 PM

Hi Pal
yes, I do realise who my real friends are, although I have been paranoid with thoughts, because another individual led me a stray since pretty much the day I came to this board, all those years ago posting as RoseanneFan. Some of you weren't even around, so how could I put blame on you?

I told Zippy who it was in private, and this person will never get to me ever again. Once I find a way to not let it bother me anymore lol

I really don't want to say this persons name, I don't want to anything vindictive to them, I have nothing on them, they could easily argue that I am a liar, and nobody would really be shocked, its just some one I was stupid enough to trust for years on end...lol

I'm sorry though that you guys feel guilty because it isn't any of your fault, or what I'm going through now. Or anything anyone at this board should feel they have to clean up, because of things this person said to me, that led me to confusion, probably for the sake of them wanting to make my mind go crazy actually lol.

I'm sorry for making any one else feel bad if I did with my tirade today lol.....

Pal

04-26-2009, 03:06 PM

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QUOTING FROM POSTER: ChicagoDiva;1865647 (Post Number)

Hi Pal
yes, I do realise who my real friends are, although I have been paranoid with thoughts, because another individual led me a stray since pretty much the day I came to this board, all those years ago posting as RoseanneFan. Some of you weren't even around, so how could I put blame on you?

I told Zippy who it was in private, and this person will never get to me ever again. Once I find a way to not let it bother me anymore lol

I really don't want to say this persons name, I don't want to anything vindictive to them, I have nothing on them, they could easily argue that I am a liar, and nobody would really be shocked, its just some one I was stupid enough to trust for years on end...lol

I'm sorry though that you guys feel guilty because it isn't any of your fault, or what I'm going through now. Or anything anyone at this board should feel they have to clean up, because of things this person said to me, that led me to confusion, probably for the sake of them wanting to make my mind go crazy actually lol.

I'm sorry for making any one else feel bad if I did with my tirade today lol.....

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Don't feel bad Amber :) When you said your friends were talking about you, I naturally assumed you meant one of us because WE ARE your friends!! I just wanted to make it clear that from my end, no one ever said a word against you.

It sounds like whoever this is is not worth your time or bother. And they/he/she can't say anything to any of us that we would pay any attention too. So don't worry about that.

I'm still confused by all of this and I don't know what you mean about "cleaning up" but I think you will tell us when you're ready.

xxxxxooooo

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 03:59 PM

I think what a lot of people are confused, because I have just let things slide for the sake of keeping peace going.

A lot of you may or may not have noticed, but when I came back to this board back in June, I felt that a battle had ensued between me and another poster. I had talked to this poster on board and thru privy to see what was up, and in return I felt all did was get shit on. Don't know why or what the point was, but it was hurtful and not something I take with kind, from anyone !

Whether intentional or not, I felt lines where drawn in the sand on whose side to take in case of battle.

I had later discovered all this person had done on months on end was play games and bebop around and talk about me even after shitting on me and brag and hype themselves up on a daily.

Is what I am saying above true? I Don't know, but it is/was my perception of things were. Is it right or wrong? I don't know, I didn't come to debate that, all I came here to do was state my perception and to state what was bothering me as a poster and a person with feelings.

What is one to do with out defense against people who can be shitty to them with out cause, because if bring defense the other poster who is being shitty doesn't like, there fore I have to roll over and get bashed, because I confront on not getting shit on?

As I said, these things are just my perceptions, whether true or not, we are allowed to have them from time to time and to post them.

KaliChris

04-26-2009, 04:04 PM

Last June? I can't even remember who or what happened.

Pal

04-26-2009, 04:09 PM

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QUOTING FROM POSTER: ChicagoDiva;1865682 (Post Number)

I think what a lot of people are confused, because I have just let things slide for the sake of keeping peace going.

A lot of you may or may not have noticed, but when I came back to this board back in June, I felt that a battle had ensued between me and another poster. I had talked to this poster on board and thru privy to see what was up, and in return I felt all did was get shit on. Don't know why or what the point was, but it was hurtful and not something I take with kind, from anyone !

Whether intentional or not, I felt lines where drawn in the sand on whose side to take in case of battle.

I had later discovered all this person had done on months on end was play games and bebop around and talk about me even after shitting on me and brag and hype themselves up on a daily.

Is what I am saying above true? I Don't know, but it is/was my perception of things were. Is it right or wrong? I don't know, I didn't come to debate that, all I came here to do was state my perception and to state what was bothering me as a poster and a person with feelings.

What is one to do with out defense against people who can be shitty to them with out cause, because if bring defense the other poster who is being shitty doesn't like, there fore I have to roll over and get bashed, because I confront on not getting shit on?

As I said, these things are just my perceptions, whether true or not, we are allowed to have them from time to time and to post them.

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Amber,
Whatever happened is over I think...... I just hope you can move on and put things behind you. Ignore whoever upset you if you feel you should. Or, if it keeps bugging you, go ahead and pm the person and tell them how you feel.

Either way, whatever you choose, I hope it makes you feel better.

Zippy

04-26-2009, 04:11 PM

Amber

I have room behind my shed for a few more bodies

If'n you need to store one...Im just sayin :)

ChicagoDiva

04-26-2009, 04:21 PM

You know, I feel better after posting all of this. So maybe all my problem was that, I was just letting things stay inside and not let them out, and getting upset for not letting them out, when all I have to be upset with, is myself, for allowing these people to upset me for so long and act like a bitter person who can't let stupid Internet crap go ever lol.

I mean the last thing I ever want to be is become the next "HellSkanK" of tvtalk, meddling in everyone's business and being a bitch because I didn't get my way. lol

But I still wanted to be a poster who was able to state their perceptions and state why it is bothering them. That's all.

And now that I did that, I feel better and am able to move on I think.

I mean really not mad at anyone, just upset for not stating things before.