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Mom's Who Spy on their Daughters
Montel,
I totally disagree with you telling those parents that they are out of line spying on their children. This is what's wrong with the world today because there is not enough parents as myself and those ladies. Spying is something that all parents should do. You go to the schools periodically and check on their grades and conduct. Why not check their rooms and see what's going on in there? I tell you one thing, if the parents of those children that shot up Columbine High School had checked their room, that disaster could have been prevented. If parents would check their children rooms for little love letters, they would find out that love letters that we use to write no longer exists(do you love me yes or no, please circle one). Now days everything about sex and how we are going to do it and when is written on these children of today letters and it gets worse. This why we have so much teen pregnancy. Their is no one to get in these children kool-aid and put some fear of God and fear of mom and dad in them. I'll share this with you, when my daughter was 12y/o, my fiance then which is my husband today, told me it was time to check my children rooms. I had been putting it off because my children and I had such a close relationship that I thought they would come to me with anything. Raising them in the chuch, they had confessed salvation and was living in it as far as I could see with my naked eyes. Lord behold, I decided to check their rooms and my son was pretty clean, but my daughter had letters piled up from little boys asking her at 12 to have SEX, and letters she had wrote to them saying YES and where. My heart dropped and so did my trust in her. I have never been so upset in my life. I spanked her until I got tired. She tried to use that "I'm going to call 911" I told her to go ahead because as far as I was concerned she was no longer my child anymore. I told her that was one less mouth to feed, go ahead and go to some foster home where she can be raped and abused because at that point I didn't care. I then picked up the phone and went to dial the number she begged me no to and apologized to me and promised that she wouldn't write anymore and told me that she has never been with a boy. I told her that I was going to take her to the Doctor that I was working as a nurse for and let him check her that next day. She agreed but I didn't take her because I felt that if she had done something she would have begged me to take her to the doctor to check and see if she was still a virgin. My daughter and I still have a beautiful relationship and she tells me everything. She is 15 now and still don't take phone calls from boys. She's a strong young lady in the church, where she influence other children about being Holy Ghost filled, speaking in tongues and sold out to the Lord. She's on the dance ministry at church, and she is so anointed in her dance and praise. I knew that if I prayed for her to be filled with the Holy Ghost, which is a keeper, all my worries would be over. I can't watch her all the time but God can. I still check their rooms and go to the school unexpectively and check on them. I don't call it spying, I call it CONCERNED.
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